Anyway, when we adopted in Costa Rica and Ukraine,
everything was topsy turvy. You never
knew what was going to happen next. We
planned to stay for about two weeks in each country and we were in Costa Rica for a
month and in Ukraine for two months. At
any time, an official may or may not want to meet this week, or show up for his/her
appointment, or sign your adoption papers etc. etc. Here in China, we are enjoying the opposite
experience. Everything is happening
according to an iron-clad agenda. There
are Americans everywhere, all adopting Chinese kids and all going through the
same assembly-line-type week. We’ve made
friends with a bunch of families who are not even using the same adoption agency
or staying in the same hotel as us, but we see them everywhere since everyone’s
on the same schedule.
All the days here are essentially the same. We wake early and send Bill off to exercise. Then we all hit the breakfast buffet in the
hotel (and try not to stuff ourselves) and meet about five other families for
morning touring. We come back about noon
for lunch in our hotel room and naptime, then we wander around the city looking
for a restaurant that is both clean and affordable for dinner. By the time we get back to our hotel, it’s
usually time for bed. The few variations
that get thrown in here are Bill lugging me along to exercise with him, trips
to wal-mart, swimming in the hotel pool or doing laundry in the hotel
bathtub.
On Sunday, our tour was to a local Buddhist temple. It was a
500 year old temple made of four large buildings surrounding a well-kept
courtyard. It was essentially a tourist
trap. Each building held a different
kind of Chinese craft for sale: calligraphy, silk, embroidery, jewelry, painted
bowls etc. etc. It was a comical mix of
old architecture and new capitalism.
This was my favorite photo of the day. It’s a soda machine that is at the end of a corridor between two of the buildings. Such scenes make me happy. I don’t know why. |
After the temple, we hit a sort of shopping mall that sold
jewelry. It was huge, four stories high
and just rows and rows of jewelry. I’m
not into jewelry, so we went to McDonalds.
On Monday, we went to another Buddhist temple that was
actually a temple. I didn’t know this,
but there are many Buddahs, each with his own purpose, so this was many buildings
filled with many different Buddahs.
At the last building, there was a Buddhist priest available to bless the children. We declined. I can’t help getting annoyed at stuff like this. Buddhism is the largest religion in China and these people are the ones who were planning to essentially neglect my babies during their formative years, if not longer, and you think I want a religious leader from such a culture to give my child a blessing?
This is just one wall of a pearl store. It had three walls like this and there were at least twenty similar stores. |
At the last building, there was a Buddhist priest available to bless the children. We declined. I can’t help getting annoyed at stuff like this. Buddhism is the largest religion in China and these people are the ones who were planning to essentially neglect my babies during their formative years, if not longer, and you think I want a religious leader from such a culture to give my child a blessing?
After that, we went to a spice market. This was also huge, but rather than a multi-story
mall, it was just rows and rows of city streets filled with little shops of
spices and pots and …bugs.
We spent the morning looking for a deep fried scorpion for Paul to eat (I’m going to spare you my thoughts on the Bucket lists of 14 year old boys). We failed at this. All we found were live scorpions. ZiXuan, who wanted me to carry her the whole time, saw a huge vat of scorpions and wanted down. She went right over to them. If I hadn’t grabbed her, I think she would have put her hand right into the bowl.
We spent the morning looking for a deep fried scorpion for Paul to eat (I’m going to spare you my thoughts on the Bucket lists of 14 year old boys). We failed at this. All we found were live scorpions. ZiXuan, who wanted me to carry her the whole time, saw a huge vat of scorpions and wanted down. She went right over to them. If I hadn’t grabbed her, I think she would have put her hand right into the bowl.
Both days, we came back to the hotel about 1:00 and napped until dinner time. The heat here just sucks the life out of
us. It’s in the 90’s which wouldn’t be
horrible, but the humidity is stifling and by the time we get back to the
hotel, everyone hits the hay for at least two hours.
We usually eat out at a local restaurant. Sunday night, we hit a popular Chinese spot. It was jam packed and, honestly, the food was great, but the staring at QingBei is just so hard to endure, we went to an American Coffee Shop Monday night. This is ZiXuan, discovering ketchup.
We usually eat out at a local restaurant. Sunday night, we hit a popular Chinese spot. It was jam packed and, honestly, the food was great, but the staring at QingBei is just so hard to endure, we went to an American Coffee Shop Monday night. This is ZiXuan, discovering ketchup.
That is pretty much our days here. Three more, and then we head home.
uh - that's a bowl of scorpions. Whoa.
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